Arguments are to be avoided; they are always vulgar and often convincing

"do you want a coffee?"; "are you making any?"; "no"; "so you are not staying?"; "only if u making some"; "are you always this sensible?"; "i try to be, i dont want to assume anything"; "maybe you should try it sometimes"; "for what? to get hurt, no thanks"; "no, wht im trying to say is maybe what you assuming was right, i do want you to stay and you can ask me to make you a cup of coffee"; "well, on the other hand what if i assume things wrong and get hurt, i just dont want that anymore, im tired"; he is speechless at this point; but suddenly i see him walking towards me; in his hand are two cups of coffee; "i want you to stay, im not begging or asking, im telling you to, stay with me, ok? im making you breakfast after this.....and dont you just be all sensible without assuming and walk away from me, you hear that?"; im smiling inside....and feel love growing....