Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goals; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude.

it's not even something i entitle for and yet i fall for it again, again and again; i cant help myself; that's this charm around you and me; just so happened again you texted me by invitation i tag along with your mum this time even; u wearing a nice new shirt new gift from mum; having one too many beer and way too many pizzas; it wasn't the best performance but i guess i am just happy to see you; we we're making some more plans; you were talking about size; which is quite rare; so that i realise size does matter; to every men and every women; i guess sometime in life we are just meant to be having the kind of relationship with someone you really like/ love that you will find it forever weird but comfortable; and with you i do find comfortable but less weird as we go on, really.

The greatest glory is not in never falling but in rising up every time we fall.

.....and your job is so easy, she said;
but please, if you dont know anything about my job;
just shut up, bitch!

He felt that he could forgive anything to anyone, because happiness was the greatest agent of purification.

he really didnt need to say much; he invited me over; his mum is around; i dont care; had dinner together; not a single word; i dont understand why i need to decide; he is adult enough and yet so indecisive; i hate that about him; all these while i know for a fact that; i always fall for the wrong man.

It is good to be without vices, but it is not good to be without temptations.

is not too crazy if i want to see you again, right?
it is, but it's lovely crazy;
eventhough when you are feeling unwell.

How beautiful maleness is, if it finds its right expression.

sex is great; he wrote on the mirror

There is a lot more to life than just struggling to make money.

U said u miss me; Faster than i; Maybe u really miss me more than i realized; i dont actually care anymore to be honest; It has been four weeks our away time; I thought u fixed the thing u were supposed to but u said u didn't and it was really difficult; i dont buy it; thats just a shit loads of crap; All I heard is just excuses; But i see you not long after again in 4 days time and we are planning a trip; long away trip, for real this time.

If you don't know where you are going, you will probably end up somewhere else.

was chatting for months;
finally realising we should do it;
then we did;
you can't stop praising me;
i know all along im a gem and a keeper;
too bad for those who never know me better.

Acquire inner peace and a multitude will find their salvation near you.

七点整；same trick; same msg; same reply; same decision; when can i get over you; probably never; 带了啤酒；就你要吃晚餐；原来其实就算我不用做任何的决定；你也很自然而然的想知道我的想法；最后去吃汉堡；知道你就快要走了；没有问；都你自己说；你的剧本；不同的故事；没什么新奇至少对我而言；我没有说；你必须离开解决一些问题一些已经在你生命中缠着你很久的问题；必须解决但从来没有解决；那算什么呢；是你没有决心；太自私；where is the commitment? where is the compromise? where is the love? where? where? where? i dont get it; 在你离开前我们还来得及在一起；will you ever get bored of me? i dont think so; what about you? not yet, i dont think so; but dont you think is a good thing; maybe we should get bored of each other then figure out a way to not get bored with each other; im not even bored of you; what are you talking about? 但你有意无意每一次的触摸；让我就这样情不自禁地；心甘情愿地；但我没有我真的没有。

Knowledge speaks, but wisdom listens.

那天你来电；约我到一个朋友的生日会；我只为和你喝喝酒；原来你还没有念我的来讯；竟然心有灵犀；你说月尾会去巴黎；要做一个交代；已经没有了什么期望；上次你还是快乐的回来；我总天真地相信着如果你对一段感情真的执著；你会想尽办法无论如何去和你爱的那个人在一起；我没有在你身上看见你说的那份爱和那股勇气；我只能默默的祝福你。

The ideas that have lighted my way have been kindness, beauty and truth.

你放不下尊严自尊你害死的只有你自己。

Friendship was given by nature to be an assistant to virtue, not a companion to vice.

U called and we make a date. 8plus. All intentional. We know what we want. So it happens much quicker now. No sighing. No questions. No hassle. No doubt. Both our mind are clear on what we are going to get. So then cut the crap and bullshit go right to the point. Everything happened and it only took less than 120minute. No more. No less.

I must create a system or be enslaved by another man's.

i can be a real mean bitch if i want, but i wont coz im better than that!

If you can find something everyone agrees on, it's wrong.

就提早了四天为你庆祝生日；买了一份你喜欢的礼物；一套香氛很年轻味道的香氛；一起去喝啤酒大快朵颐一堆食物；你有很多烦恼还是有很多烦恼；都几年了以为你和女朋友有了新的计划说好你们又在一起了就应该朝着这个方向去努力吧；但你胆怯犹豫；你五十二了我不会教你怎么做；你亦没有问我没有对我说；我没有要猜没有要烦；就和你在一起今晚；今晚。

I have witnessed the softening of the hardest of hearts by a simple smile.

but what i didnt tell you is; i have been doing fine all by myself all this time and i dont really need you to be here to fuck up my life; so if this is really happening between you and me, this has got to be it; this is really a trust issue; if you can get thru this then i believe we can get thru everything and anything; i miss you so terribly and so much that you have no idea how many times i look at your "i miss you" message and i wanted to cry because i am forcing myself not to reply; not to say a word just to let you prove to me that you are man enough to pick up the mess, fix it and come back to me, i am just a normal average human being; i just a woman afraid to get hurt just the same; i dont want to be hurt; not anymore; so tomorrow will be the moment of truth.

We read frequently if unknowingly, in quest of a mind more original than our own.

It's been a month; Deep down inside we know that feeling; We've been missing each other so much; U text me so we went out for dinner; Had burger; U telling story about ur trip and how u r making progress with ur girl. also about some lousy movie; you haven't changed one bit; I'm happy for u; I also was telling u how I sort of seeing someone then I don't know if you are happy for me; U wanted to know all; But as usual we made up for old time for the month we didn't see each other; U miss me so so much when there's time u can't stop thinking about me n u want me; U r dependent to me so much; I hope that's a good thing; We r adult enuff to know what we r doing and u told me there's nothing wrong to make love to someone u r really into even if it's two of them; i used to think it's wrong but now i agree; not anymore; all of this because you said: you are my drug.

there are still so many helper and kindness in this world, so so so many.

I feel like a lot of people have this impression that you have to spend your twenties fucking up and spending your time on people you don’t care about and making weird gambles with your heart just to have stories to tell, and I can’t relate to that. I can’t deal with that mentality. So if I’m single for a long time, I’m single for a long time. But fuck, man. I want to be honored to be in the room with a dude, ya know? I want to feel privileged to have that person laugh at my joke and poke holes in my arguments and spend their weekend afternoon with me, and if that means lamping and spending time with my friends and getting really good at being my best self, then fine. Fuck it. At the end of the day I’d rather have done a really good job at that than at taking a million desperate swings at shitty pitches just because the thought of being alone terrifies me so much.

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For all that has been, thanks. For all that will be, yes.

17042013； 19:41； 电话响起；是为你特设的铃声；在做什吃了吗？唔，正在吃；这个时候其实没想到你会打来；对啊其实想起你再看看钟都已经几点钟了你当然在吃我在忙都忘了时间；你在解释着；我没在意其实有时候你更迟打给我我还是愿意出来的；就是从未拒绝过你；吃完饭干嘛；没干嘛；来我这吧；好，买酒就过来；唔，待会儿见；我听你笑着说；习惯了就是这样就没有再怎么样了；一切如常；你要是开始见着别人我也是不会怪你的；完事后陪你去吃快餐说着说那的扯上了重复的音乐；过后就回了你一封电邮；然后就突然记起我以前写过的一句话：people hate the same thing but they get comfortable with routine…..and im deeply addicted with this routine of being with you, deeply.

The trouble with normal is it always gets worse.

U r not so simple;  did you meant to say I am difficult or hard to deal with. It seems to you im not as simple a thinker,  there's something more than that from me;  which is hard for you to figure.

There's a fine line between genius and insanity. I have erased this line.

i really love my parents; this is me talking now; as of this moment; right after i put down the phone with my mum; 14042013; 10:10, i really do and i mean it.

We are not living in a movie

We're not even living in a lousy reality show.

Entertainment has seduced us into believing that we have a chance to live the life they live in the movies. Even the people in the movies don't live that life.

It doesn't take 135 minutes to make a life, it takes almost a century.

Everything doesn't depend on what happens in the next ninety seconds. Ever.

The people around us don't live secret lives. Spaceships and evil cowboys and pathogens aren't going to upend the world tomorrow, either.

Life is actually far better than it is in the movies. And it takes longer.

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