When someone won’t let you in, eventually you stop knocking. Know what I mean?

we are glad and enjoy the fact that we can talk about anything; about a topic; or off a topic; or just something branching out of a topic; the short 30min phone call getting shorter; sometimes it slips your mind and you did not call; but then what can i do; how is it with her; maybe sometimes it;s about a book; work; sex; relationship between us; but one thing i know; we cant talk about family; your family; it hard not to compare; while you doing it with me; what about her; when you say you love me; what about her; you mentioned an article; a couple could sit there and say nothing but feel a connection; a couple can also sit there talk about something shallow and no feel anything; how is it with you and her; you strongly defending your family style against anything i may say; i know you are getting defensive; thinking the communication you have with your family; although not the best; but at least it's something; you are against everything when you find a wee but sense of condemn against it; but why are you here now then with me; what are you trying to achieve; i often brake when i suspect the answer that came out from you will not be something i wanted to hear; i stop then; so not to hurt myself in advanced; i get used to it in my various relationships i have been thru; we argue about the book; it is not something you understand; you have a family; you have a relationship from scratch; not a bad one; although maybe sometimes out of it; but you are finding your way back; i can't; i want t own you; whenever i get my time with you; i want you to make me your priority; but you couldn't; what else can i say; that i'm disappointed; you are not mine to begin with; you hate woman that still turn to a man when the man treated her badly; because you are never in a situation where you need to be taken back; where you seem desperate and have no where to go to; i was that person; what are you trying to show? who are you trying to please? you have her; show her love; give her to her; that's about enough; i do not care what is going on between you two; i'm hurt enough from the past; i am still hurting; i cant change it; our exchange is just sexual; we have to admit that; i am no one special; i am never special; it was just timing; that is all; i like this line; that set us apart; keeping me sane as my last line of defense; it will never be fair if you choose not to tell me everything; having the right to not answer the questions that i ask; i want us to ask hard questions and are able to answer them and having the heart to accept whatever the answer is going to be; how we treat each other in the very beginning will forever set the tone how we will treat each other for the rest of the relationship; although there will be time we know we need to take it to the next level; maybe it will fade of; maybe it will continue; who knows? a spontaneous two hours dinner; was a super pleasant surprise; what is my drive? nothing excites me? are this two the same thing? hobbies are not talent; that was funny realization; i seem to lost it; i have to find myself again; once more; i have to let go of the question who am i to you and think of myself a little less from you; in the end; in this life; me and myself are the only person i need to deal with.