I am not you; I am not her; still it is hard for me to comprehend; what problem cannot be solved with 25 year of marriage? What is it?
Later Ponder: actually that was not supposed to be the question; it should be after you have been with someone for 25 years; for better or for worse; can't you just get used to it already and find happiness off of each other?
Once you have tasted flight, you will forever walk the earth with your eyes turned skyward, for there you have been, and there you will always long to return.
-- Leonardo da Vinci