There is only one way to happiness and that is to cease worrying about things which are beyond the power of our will.

we argue about the smallest thing; but the reason simply we have not shared our plan and you felt that something has been taken away from you; i guess at the end of the day there's nothing complicated about a relationship; you chose to be together or not; if you do, just suck it up, get on with it; argue; make peace; argue; make peace and don't forget to love each other; otherwise you can always (always!) walk away.