You learn a lot about people when you play games with them.

"Not because there is the possibility of growing old together or something;
But just because you like each other enough."

it's something that i havent heard for a long time that feel so right and so good.

First weigh the considerations, then take the risks.

看着时间；
我们两个都在线上；
但都没有和彼此说话；
这样很伤。

Be honorable yourself if you wish to associate with honorable people.

原来上一次见你已经是一年前的事了；你还是一个样；你也是；我们彼此笑着玩弄着；这一次之后有很大可能以后都不会再见了；终于还是说了出来；我没有伤心失望；我们就躺着在那张很大的双人床上；什么都没有做；聊了一整晚；临走前我喝完了那一杯冷掉了的咖啡；看了一眼你常用的那个香水 - issey miyake "intense"； 我知道你将要结婚了；我祝福你们永远快乐；要快乐。

这是我们的结束礼。

Never esteem anything as of advantage to you that will make you break your word or lose your self-respect.

远距离的恋爱；
我已经说服了自己那不是真的；
相爱就是要想见；
那一刻实实在在的抚摸接吻是多么的重要啊；
此时此刻。

The greatest justice in life is that your vision and looks tend to go simultaneously.

敌不动我不动；
可能我们都在等着谁先动。

Although prepared for martyrdom, I preferred that it be postponed.

we are done and we sitting by the bed side, quietly; finally you said im going away; for how long; i dont know; are you coming back; i dont know; tell me something that you know for sure; but you know what; there is nothing i know for sure just like how i feel so unsure with you but also at the same time being with you is the surest thing ive ever done, touching you feeling you kissing you are the only thing i feel sure about; i know im a big fucking mess myself & you might not want to pick up my crap and be with me; i can see it in your eyes if i ask you would actually say yes.

yes.

that's another thing i feel sure about;
perhaps the unsure part is not you but me; just me.

We did not change as we grew older; we just became more clearly ourselves.

U told me something I never knew;
That u read my blog all this while;
That my old blog vanished and it's such a shame;
That if I knew that u were following my blog before I would've stopped the posting altogether;
That I know u know me well;
That u did the right thing;
That u made the right move;
That.

Simplicity is the peak of civilization.

U called; 2212; where r u? What u doing? As usual entertain u with ur shitty luck; I'm out and driving; can u come over? I never say no; not to anything of urs; that u should know; I'm glad I caught u while u r out; did that mean u won't call if I'm in; I wanted to just call and say good night; we ended up with beer supper and chit chat all night; that was like my ideal form to spend a night;with you; that's the truth; I should let u shoot me again; I should really; before I grow any older and fatter, u know?

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

你必须要再一次勇敢地打开心房，去接受一段在你面前你却一而再再而三拒绝的爱；他说；你怎么能就这样断定我的必须呢；每个人有不为人知的过去；我没有多说；你是个很慢热的人；我是的但我并没有拒你於千里之外这一点你是庆幸的；现在的我毅然迈出了脚步决定了不要太轻易就接受那所谓的情爱；我知道机会不会等我；我不想解释；还是等过了十月；再说吧。

Take what you can use and let the rest go by.

人长大其实就有必要改变、承担、接受；
可是她竟然这样说；
而且还是对最疼爱她的人；
我听着心都碎了。

When the heart speaks, the mind finds it indecent to object.

一句话就说到我心坎里去了；
就一句话；
and also the way you trust me.

Happiness is essentially a state of going somewhere, wholeheartedly, one-directionally, without regret or reservation.

你时常就是这样可爱、这样美；好爱你呐；我看着你就笑了；这样就够了；两个人的关系真的可以很简单、也可以很复杂；电影取材的美好事物不能总是期待它们就发生在生活里；遇见到一些人庆幸遇见过他们教懂了我一些人和事；人生岂能尽如您意；是不是就应该坦白；太坦荡荡其实会把我也给吓坏；真的就是轻轻的对我说我好就够了。

It is well to give when asked but it is better to give unasked, through understanding.

我希望你没有讨厌我，因为我只能这样说。

Get pleasure out of life...as much as you can. Nobody ever died from pleasure.

你知道吗？
有很多问题你是不需要一个人扛的。

Life is full of misery, loneliness, and suffering - and it's all over much too soon.

you ask me about work;
how am i doing;
i almost want to cry;
i was telling you:
i haven't been travelling;
i haven't been shooting;
i haven't been doing anything;
i haven't been living;
but all i want is someone to appreciate what i do;
and i will give it my all;
only that;
i still cant get.

We are advertis'd by our loving friends.

因为我站远了；所以也看得越清楚；
然后我就不再爱你了。

Grief can take care of itself, but to get the full value of a joy you must have somebody to divide it with.

我要再重新寻找那股勇气；告诉自己一切会过去的；我是一个有用的人；我挣扎害怕因为我知道如果我连最后的这一道防护线都保不住自己的话；这将会是一个很难看的结果。

Happiness is good health and a bad memory.

我怎么可以懦弱的告诉自己说我不在乎呢；我怎么可以欺骗自己呢；人生充满着无数的谎言和脆弱；我竟然能装作镇定摆出从容不迫的姿态去应对；我没有想过我可以或不可以；我只知道事到如今就只能够这样豁出去；就算是我在懦弱的告诉自己说我不在乎；就算是我其实是在欺骗着我自己; 就算是如此。

Perseverance does not equal worthiness.

talk is cheap and sex is easy;
it's everything else that is hard.

Courage is doing what you're afraid to do. There can be no courage unless you're scared.

你总是很有礼貌的问我；什么时候有空；为你我总会有时间；一个两小时的午餐；聊着；工作其实你也厌烦了你的摄影工作；继续做你喜欢做的吧；一大把年纪应该没什么顾虑了；如果有亦是自找的啦；你时常都总是说了一大堆有的没有的；买新房子啦、卖家私啦、乐队啦、低音吉他啦；我也不怎么管了；随着年月的增长一切会改变；就像我已经没有再像从前一样知道你会离开两个星期就伤心很久；虽然我还是好奇你和你女朋友是怎么了呢；但唯一没有变的还是在乎你和对你的感觉；如果有一天你真的不在那我怎么办呢？

Pick battles big enough to matter, small enough to win.

everyone ask me why do it? why now?

it's late self realization, i guess.

Perseverance does not equal worthiness.

air cond too cold; shivering moment; past; life; girl friend; work; school; how being in two world is a good thing; boy friend; love life; strict parents; open mindedness; being comfortable; sitting outside; talking soft; talking loud; business; people watching; 2 beers; more people watching; talking; never assume you know anybody; never.

Nothing ever goes away.

23082012; 1900; 到了；在吧台；我看见但是为了确定我打了一通电话；你真的是很小；我没有骗你；亦没有理由要骗你；ok u passed the 15min test； so are you;  没有想到最后你会吻我；其实没有代表什么；我已经习惯了。

If people never did silly things, nothing intelligent would ever get done.

the thing is it's already bad that i dont know what am i good at, but it makes thing even worse when you don't know what am i good at.

We can have facts without thinking but we cannot have thinking without facts.

可能我的生命里就是欠缺了那么一个叫我去做什么我就去做什么的男人。

Our remedies oft in ourselves do lie.

我就静静坐在餐桌上看着你们在聊天；吃完你煮的海鲜意大利面条；喝着啤酒红酒一堆；笑你怎么能忘了甜品；完全听不懂你们在说什么；无所谓；就一直在傻笑；没见他们有三两年了；见着了还是很高兴；谢谢你邀请我来；你就这么一直看着我轻轻抚摸着我的手不停的道歉；有什么不好意思的呢；不打紧我说；就当作是在看着一套没有subtitle的电影；我说；但你说这部电影一点看头都没有；你不知道的是我就是喜欢这样的一部电影。

you know he used to be this shy kid, that's why i love him, now he just talks too much; i laughing away like nobody business; that was like the best story ever for such a long time.

im so very fond of you, i always do;

yes, me too, me too.

We do not know what we want and yet we are responsible for what we are - that is the fact

你知道吗？
原来你也有你自己解决不了的烦恼；
但是还是谢谢你听了我的。

Sadness be gone, let's be people who deserve to be loved, who are worthy, cause we are worthy.

Sam #2: You can hear this, close your eyes 

Annie: What? 

Sam #2: I just want you to listen to me. Humor me please? 

Sam #2: [Annie closes her eyes] It's not easy to be adored, you impeticuler you have a tougher time with it then most, I get that, but I want you to give it a try. Think of it as an experiment. I promise I will be very wonderful at adoring you Annie. It an area where, I think I got a great deal of talent. You're worth the adoration Annie, your worth it, and the fact that you don't believe it, has nothing to do with weather its true or not, it is true for me, and that is all that matters. 

I shut my eyes in order to see.

not to say he is all interesting; when you meet people you know in the first 15 minutes if you want to continue the conversation or you just want to leave; at least to me there's this 15min window of opportunity; impress me or just get back on with your life; he manage; anyway not like it's all possible to know a person first time you meet them; so give it a chance; there will be more and there should be more of this.

Hate no one; hate their vices, not themselves.

so that's it? thats all you have to say to me? nothing at all? i know you know what it is but you just dont want to say it; what you say will not hurt me but what you wont say will; dont you get that? didnt you know that? i thought i no longer need anybody; i was wrong; but you are not helping at all; at all.

Enjoy present pleasures in such a way as not to injure future ones.

我荒废了一年的时间；可是其实不止一年；朋友都笑我是一个把爱情看得太重的女人；我是的；我无耻地承认；不就是希望有一个人爱有一个人疼吗；为什么还在乎呢？

we accept the love we think we deserve.

And in that moment, I swear we were infinite.

Prove all things; hold fast that which is good.

we should go somewhere, we really should;

i heard this from you about a thousand billion million trillion time;

so why dont we?

A lie told often enough becomes the truth.

看着一道又一道的回复；

毫无吸引力；

也没有杀伤力；

到底在找着什么呢？

过程当中是不是让我迷失了自己。

There are two ways of exerting one's strength: one is pushing down, the other is pulling up.

but there's a catch;
there's always a catch;
on your term;
to do everything just to match your wish, your demand;
the thing is you don't even know me;
you don't even clear on what i want;
understand me in a way that someone who love me ever would;
i know it's all my fault;
because i allow all this to happen;
to me and to you.

He who hesitates is a damned fool.

i hope you are not taking advantage of the situation;

although deep down inside i know that you are;

and i forgive you by doing that;

because i love you so;
i really really do.

If we all did the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves.

and why can't you take criticism? just don't share it with me then, you know i wont like it and you know we are not the same; being frank will just be hurting you than i rather not.

...coz in the end

It's the price I guess
For the lies I've told
That the truth it no longer thrills me

And why can't we laugh?
When it's all we have
Have we put these childish things away?
Have we lost the magic that we once had?

In the end, in the end
There's nothing more to life than love, is there?
In the end, in the end
It's time for us to lose our weary minds

Will you dance with me?
Like we used to dance
And remember how to move together

You are the torch
And it all makes sense
I've waited here for you forever
I've waited here for you forever

In the end, in the end
There's nothing more to life than love, is there?
In the end, in the end
It's time for us to lose our weary minds

We're lost 'til we learn how to ask
We're lost 'til we learn how to ask
We are lost 'til we learn how to ask
So please, please just ask

In the end, in the end
There's nothing more to life than love, is there?
In the end, in the end
It's time for us to lose our weary minds
There's nothing more to life than love, is there?

Study without desire spoils the memory, and it retains nothing that it takes in.

you know i hate it; but you gotta learn not to say no; not here; not with me; that's like an unspoken agreement; mutually understood by both; i still hate it; the fact that you are not mine.

It was enough to make a body ashamed of the human race.

i don't think you understand;
you are in love with someone else.

Nothing is too small to know, and nothing is too big to attempt.

thats when i decided;
im gonna just sleep with u;
no matter what;
even if im married..

Is the life I'm living the life that wants to live in me?

the more people i meet;
the more i miss you;
i miss you;
i so do;
i really do.

Nothing ever becomes real until it is experienced.

你错误的估计让我知道原来你对我一点都不了解；
我们诉说着彼此走到人生这一个关卡的窘境；
而你能给我的劝告是必须清楚知道你要的是什么才去做；
当然我不能期望你会说放开一切去尝试去搏那么一大堆不中用的话；
你怎么可能就让我如此放肆呢；
毕竟我们已是几岁的人了；
我一直的隐瞒但最终还是躲不过向你说出我想你的真相；
而你只是一直地说我可爱就是喜欢我这样；
还能一起多久呢说不上来；
但我知道我们都隐瞒着对方很多故事；
I am a very private person;
So am I;
So am I.

It's not true that life is one damn thing after another; it is one damn thing over and over.

im in love with your dishonesty

Vigorous writing is concise.

if we are together,
do you think we will be happy?

The deepest definition of youth is life as yet untouched by tragedy.

And when you think someone at your age should be more capable in handling the very same situation that im stuck in right now; but im wrong; coz you don’t know what to do; all we can do is just sit there and smile to each other; it doesn’t make me feel any better or comforting; I guess just knowing that you are here is enough; there is nothing you can actually do for me anyway, you have lots of your own problems & issues, with life/work/girlfriend/age/everything. it suddenly becomes the opposite that I start to worry about you; instead.

To be without some of the things you want is an indispensable part of happiness.

i love you baby;
then he ended the call;
awkward moment;
i know i shouldnt stay;
what is this anyway;
he insisted;
who am i to him?
can one love two person?
im not sure;
in the end;
i still stayed;
kiss him;
touch him;
made love to him;
twice;
maybe we should just do dinner and movie next time;
thats it;
he cant let go;
i cant let go;
we cant let go;
still cant let go.

Force is all-conquering, but its victories are short-lived.

im in no position to please anybody;

not even you.

Mistakes are part of the dues one pays for a full life.

he walked 400km to find her;
he'll swim the channel;
i couldn't even cross the road to get you back.

We know what we are, but not what we may be.

i often imagine that kind of thing that you would've said and do;
just to make myself feel better.