You don’t want to let go, but don't want to be hurt, either. it's not a great place to be but what can I tell you?

you type me a really long note telling me how you feel; telling me about her; but why? why do i need to know? that you feel sorry for me? that you feel unfair to her? that you feel you should express it? of course i know exactly how you feel; because i feel the same way for you; maybe she is also telling him about how not gentle and tender you are; how you can't be the man that she wants to love again; maybe the conversation that we are  having is exactly the same conversation that they are having; will it solve anything? will it help? can i help? what can i do? you said if this is still no good it means it not the end yet; but what is good and what is no good; maybe to us this is as good as it gets and that is all there is to it; have you ever thought about that? have you? you wont or you couldn't? that are two very different thing.