Don't hit at all if it is honorably possible to avoid hitting; but never hit soft!

she took advantage of him;
stupid fool;
it drags on for 3 years;
easy target;
he just give in to her;
so easily;
so effortlessly;
i wish life can be a little bit forgiving;
and i wish he will not be so hard on himself;
there is light in every negative turning;
he just needs to make a turn around;
my friend, i wish you well;
and may you have the courage to make that turn around.