...in order that a man may be happy, it is necessary that he should not only be capable of his work, but a good judge of his work

说起来；原来你理想的世界和真实真的是有区别；我其实很同意你的看法；但是当你认识了一个人更加久以后你会发觉所谓你理想的一套想法统统都不是很实际；要怎样能够坦白呢；我没有逃避呀；但如果每分每秒都要坦荡荡毫无保留地将一切和对方说；总的要有个限度吧；再说当你认识一个人到某种程度的时候双方根本彼此不用说什么但是就已经能够知道彼此的想法和心意；你让我看到你懦弱的一面很强烈地感受到你的不安和你根本就没有安全感；然而要真真正正去认识了解一个人也需要很长的时间啊；而我又怎么能够确定你以后不会改变呢？

“could you imagine how horrible things would be if we always told others how we felt? life would be intolerably bearable.”