You can't choose the ways in which you'll be tested

"coffee"....."hmm huh".

有时候你真的是要仔细看；用心听；慢慢体会；因为虽然他不说但是你要知道有些事、细节、无论如何的小； 例如你将发夹不经意的留在他的梳妆台上；其实他是很在意的。

"you'll find someone"; he said to me; maybe that's not what i want; i just dont want to find someone; just maybe.

Certainly, travel is more than the seeing of sights; it is a change that goes on, deep and permanent, in the ideas of living.
-- Miriam Beard

A musician must make music, an artist must paint, a poet must write, if he is to be ultimately at peace with himself. What a man can be, he must be.

-- Abraham Maslow (1908-1970) American Psychologist