The right to be heard does not automatically include the right to be taken seriously.

it's 11 o'clock in the morning; somewhere in between breakfast and lunch; he walks into their usual cafe because she insisted on seeing him; in such a short notice; he simply thought maybe she wants to have brunch; he sees her from far; she was sitting at the last table having her 2nd cup of espresso; no hug; no kisses; nothing; that's a bit odd then he realize she is onto something; "can i have an americano, please?"; waiter brings him the drink in no less than 4 minutes; "when you say you are busy, you mean you are really busy, or you are just pretending to be busy because you dont want to talk to me?"; that's pretty straight forward, he was taken aback; "no, i was really busy when you called yesterday"; "i would really like to believe that we're slowly developing a steady relationship here"; "what makes it so hard for you to believe?"; "im lacking of confidence and mostly faith, i guess"; "why do you have all these doubt?"; he's frowning and annoy with the fact that why woman is so hard to understand; they could've save all the time and trouble to think about such silly thought and on the other hand try to focus on how to make this relationship works; "can we leave this open? can we agree to be in this and go on with our lives, to see some other people?"; "no, that's not the way it suppose to be"; "then you tell me how is it going to be coz really i would really like to believe that we're slowly developing a steady relationship "; she is getting so sick of repeating herself and slowly she knows that eventually the thought of getting rid of her will slowly surface inside of him, somehow, somewhere, at some point.........just a matter of time.

如果你办不到的话请你真的真的不要说，连想都不要想，为自己也好为我也好，将想法收起来，等你可以做的时候不用说去做然后想办法让我知道就好，我宁愿你这样。